Like you said, it's nice to see the old stomping grounds, and I love visiting the local library where I practically grew up in (one of the librarians even remembered my last name when I was getting online registration for the online library thingie last year, she's been working there since we got the new library in before 1993).
However, I don't have any old friends living there and should any of them move back to Nurmes, I would seriously question the person about whether they are right in their mind. So I only have my parents and Mum's sisters and their hubbies living there, plus a couple of cousins from my Mum's side. One of them had a baby last year and she just turned 1, what a cutie It's really nice to see new blood in the family.
The age difference would be totally acceptable by now, definitely. You know, as much as I would like to see Marty and Willie together, it would take some of the magic away from Beautiful Girls if we knew now that they're together. Or at least, the new movie wouldn't be as magical as I'd hope because it's always the anticipation and uncertainty that really catches my eyes and heart. Not the time when it's a done deal and everybody's happy, if you know what I mean Too bad!
I haven't seen Ordinary People but the synopsis sounded really depressing. I'll try to check it out anyway, and maybe see if there's a copy of the book in the library.
You know, maybe I should add another post in the first page of this thread: movies that I've watched this year and movies to be watched. We're always talking movies in this thread! (which is not a bad thing at all)
I wonder if Benny feels the same way these days! Peace, you should ask your BIL about that!