I think you could only be accused of being pharisaical if you insisted everyone used the 1662 liturgy, rather than it being a personal choice.
For myself, I'm glad many churches have moved on from their patriarchal rules, not allowing women priests, ministers etc.
I also think churches need to be inclusive of all members of society, including LGBTQ.
Jesus spoke out against gender inequality, religious hypocrisy, hate, segregation and social injustice, amongst other things.