Great post Pontalba, like Chrissy i've jotted down quite a few titles, i've not read any John Banville so will be checking him out & i already have Widow For A Year on my TBR pile. Off the top of my head i would say The Forsyte Saga John Galsworthy is one of my transcendant reads. There's a part in it where one of the characters receives a telegram that his son has died in the South African War not in battle but of an illness & he thinks of his son dying in a foreign land without any family or friends around him but being brought up to keep a stiff upper lip he's unable to express his grief. I cried & cried when i read that & it still brings a lump to my throat when i think of it, in fact when i finished the whole saga i felt bereft i'd enjoyed it so much. Wuthering Heights, i first saw the film with Laurence Olivier & Merle Oberon when i was a child & loved it then later read the book & loved that even more, a story of such passion & torment. Also both The Little Friend & Secret History Donna Tartt fantastic reads with strong characters.
Gosh i nearly forgot A Month In The Country J.L.Carr, a beautifully written book & a very emotional read, one that i know i'll keep coming back to.