Yes you sort of feel kind of helpless too I think - I new someone that the same thing happened to,her Dad was on holiday and died very suddenly, it was horrible, and it took her a very long time to come to terms with it. I really feel for your friend and for you too. I`m here if you need anyone. xx
Oh Nici, I`m so sorry about that awful news, such a shock too, I hope you`re ok, I know these things are always hard but they can open up old wounds too and that makes them doubley hard to deal with. Thinking of you and your friend. xx