Great win Sedge with 4-0...4th place here you come by the sounds of it. How many games left?
Alexi, thanks for your kind comments and yes enjoyment, learning etc it his top priority, winning is a bonus etc.
U'15's had a game tonight....bad defeat but they played some great footie tonight. Sunny but still windy, which just doesn't help the game at all. (12-1 defeat). Andy and his other coach were well pleased with them. I heard him tell them how well they had played and not to bother about the score, disappointing yes, but lots of encouraging passing play tonight etc.
Still no outcome of the saga. An email was sent to all the parents this morning from the culprit supposedly trying to defend himself. I can't go in to all the detail, but the email wasn't copied to Andy or his other coach. At the end of it he had such I have no choice now but to resign as of now. Andy only found out about the email by his other coach sending a message asking about the email, but he replied he didn't get one. He managed to get a copy of it emailed from a parent. Was totally gobsmacked by what the guy had written, and the most hurtful thing was something about 'lack of coaching and development'....what the f.....! Andy has been with these boys for 8yrs! Has been totally committed to them, even although on one occasion was approached to go to another club! Doesn't it say something that a few of the players they have had in the past have been scouted by higher up leagues and he has wished them well with their moves. Does their coaching not count for anything? These boys are only 14 and still learning the game every time they play.
Anyway Andy then replied to all the parents with a reply to the email, stating facts that were wrong and explaining why etc. He has the backing of the players and parents. This guy is truly out of order. He came along tonight as his step son was playing in team, stood at the sidelines, which was fine, made no contact with anyone. Andy didn't want anything said before or during the game anyway. Once the game was over the boys gathered for team talk with Andy and other coach, he then half expected him to come over and hopefully have a word with the boys and apologise. Did he hell...! We gathered up all the equipment etc, and disperssed and no apology to the boys, not a word. Back to car park, hubby and I putting things in car and 'he' asked Andy if he could have a word (other coach was there too). We weren't allowed to listen. Basically he mouthed of at him and said he would not be aplogising as didn't think there was anything he needed to apologise for etc. he ranted on and on, and Andy back at him, not shouting at each other but raised voices. By the end of it was obvious that he just wanted to have a go at Andy, but he was contradicting himself back and forth when they brought up issues, etc. In the end Andy had to walk away, before he said something he would regret....to which said bad coach said 'Grow up Andy'. Oh and he mentioned lawyers at one point to Andy to if he went down the road of Child Protection! What the.....! Andy is now going to take advice from his Active Schools coordinator he has contact with re Child Protection, but he/we think that he really needs to let someone within the club committee (maybe Child Protection officer too) know about this situation, before 'bad' coach goes mouthing off about it/Andy to others.
I felt sick to the stomach after all this tonight and have to say Andy was actually shaking after it all he was so mad wound up with adrenaliln. Glad he had his other coach with him to listen to it all.
Sorry I could go in to more detail, but am too tired....rant over (thanks for listening).