Sorry to have missed so much of this interesting thread - I've been out of touch with all-things-internet, travelling.
I was particularly interested in the fact that it was a Gideon's Bible that caused you to examine the truth of Christianity. I'm fascinated to learn how people first find out about God.
Older people can find it difficult to adjust when their usually quiet church suddenly has an infant wanting to speak and play (which is a good thing for infants to be doing!).
If I were you (and, of course, I'm not) I'd pray frequently, maybe even bother God daily, to ask where he would like you to go. There's the story of someone bothering Jesus to heal them and so he did! As we all have the opportunity of talking to the creator of the Universe, we should take it! Yes?????
A difficult decision - putting Adrian's needs before your overriding need to find the right place to learn more about who God really is.
I agree with Poppy's last comment!
Cheering you on!