How sad that you are getting used to receiving bad news Julie, but you seem to handling everything very well to me, and having people to talk to must help so always feel free to vent here. I'm a bit of a worrier too, I think most women are as it is our way of getting things done! My OH doesn't worry enough so I end up worrying for the both of us otherwise nothing would get done!!! For example I just got back from my youngest sons celebration assembly, and had asked Steve to pick up our elder son from school for his orthodontist appointment, luckily I got back a bit earlier than expected as he had totally forgotten!!!! (Luckily I had told him 10 mins earlier than he needed to be there anyway )