Man are from mars, women are from venus J. Gray
I will recommend this book to everyone as it is important how to build relationships between man and women. Of course the main ideas of these book were known for me. But additional remindement won't be unnecessary, as knowing is one thing, but doing - another.
So the main points for me from the book are as follows:
- Woman needs to be heard! Explanation, discussing of the problem helps woman to analize and understand the situation. So advice for man - not to solve woman's problem, but to listen to women.
- Man like when women like them as they are (belive in man's strenght and trust man). No critics, no advices to man!
- Sometimes man like to go away, to hide in "cave". Woman at this moment should not to disturb man and do not searche her fault in this escape.
- Sometimes women go in depression, in emotional hole. Man should help women to reach the bottom of this hole by LISTENING.
- Women like such signes of attention, care - flowers, coffe to the bad, compliments.
- I knew this always, nut never do: when women need smt they need simply ask man to do this (not in a flowery style) and not to wait when man guess as man never guess what women think!!!
- And interesting idea about writing a letter to opponent (not necessaryy sending to opponent) as many problems can be solved on this stage. So before argue it is better to analyze!