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I haven't read it actually, I had a copy years ago but I couldn't get into it at the time - I've always wanted to give it another go though, and I had planned on giving it a go after The Historian, so that's perfect!
:friends0: I should be able to post The Graveyard Book to you early next week I think.
Hows you?
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That's horrible.
It's terrible that people treated you like that, it doesn't matter how thick-skinned someone may actually be, nobody WANTS to be overweight.
No one has ever made fun of my weight, but when I go into clothes shops I won't try anything on, and I don't wear nice clothes and so on. I don't feel like I deserve to. I feel like if I TRY to look nice, people will take one look at me and think, 'ugh, why is she even bothering? State of her'.
Thank you for your kinds words. I really appreciate it, and like I said in my thread, the more confidence people have in me, the more I feel like I can't let them down. That sounds shallow, but it's the motivation I need to work towards something I know in my heart that I want to do.
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I've always had self-perception issues - when I was 16/17, I was a size 10-12 and I thought I was overweight. I wasn't. I was 9 stone. I had the teeniest bit extra on my tummy, and I thought I was fat. I was so convinced I was, that when I got fat, I didn't notice.
Your girlfriend sounds like my best friend. She is a tad overweight, I think she's about 11/12 stone, and big framed like me. She's also an inch taller. But she fits size 12 clothes, and she moans to me about being fat. It makes me want to give up.
You're right about reminding yourself though. I think I'm going to print pictures of what size I was, and put them on my wall. I'm also going to be 100% honest in my thread - I've been cheating myself for years, and for what? To be kept up all night the day before an exam? I don't need that cr*p, and no one is doing it but me.
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Thank you, it really means a lot to me to read messages like that.
50 pounds??? That's amazing!! Even with carrying 'a little extra' that's still an incredible achievement - exactly the kind that does inspire some bit of hope in me, so I really appreciate you sharing it.
My biggest fear right now is, once my current pain goes away, that I won't be able to stick to it. I've been almost this determined before, and failed. So I just hope I can do it this time.