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'No, I don't want to joing a bookclub' by Virginia Ironside.


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“Immensely charming, immensely uplifting, I would recommend it to everyone” Marian Keyes.



This is a snapshot of a nearly 60yr old’s life, told in the form of a diary, detailing the approach of & her 60th birthday & her refusal to grow old gracefully & accept the ravishes of time. She details her relationships with her family & friends coping from the mundane to the tragic.


The synopsis on the back of the book reads as follows:


‘Too young to get whisked away by a Stannah Stairlift, or to enjoy the luxury of a walk-in bath (but not so much that she doesn’t enjoy comfortable shoes), Marie is all the same getting on in years - and she’s thrilled about it. She’s a bit preoccupied about whether to give up sex - Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! - but there are compensations, like falling in love with her baby grandson, and maybe falling in love with someone else too?

Curmudgeonly, acute, touching & funny, this diary is what happens when grumpy old women meet Bridget Jones'


I must say, I borrowed this from the library based on the synopsis & have never read any other Virginia Ironside’s books, but I was very pleasantly surprised - I devoured the book in a couple of days & loved every second of it - from the funny (using a thermometer to sign a cheque) through the dinner parties & the redecoration of her room - there was always a passage to lift the reader’s mood. I found that the character’s attitude to aging was refreshing (similar to a bucket of ice water to the face) & must admit I think I might adopt this attitude as I approach her age! I loved the fact that she grew in confidence - realizing that you can be yourself, you don’t need other people’s affirmation or approval. To feel happy & content with your lot in life. She hinted at a having led a very colorful life & that she was determined to continue to live her life the way she wanted to rather than bowing down to the pressure of ‘you can’t do that - you’re too old’ scenario.


In conclusion, I loved this book & would definitely read it again! I’m also planning on searching out some more of Virginia Ironside’s books.


I’m curious as to whether anyone else has read this book & whether they enjoyed it a much as I did?

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Thanks, it's the first review I've written since school!! :o But I seriously enjoyed the book, it was great. I'm reading MC Beaton at the moment & hopefully will post a longer review on that one!

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